*Loverlization*

♥ 29 June 2008♥

Friday:

Brian got back his freedom from reservist. I took a bus 70 to Yio Chu Kang cos Brian's father had a company's party to attend. After unpacking his 'huge luggage', we went back to my house for dinner and pack a few clothes to stay over at his house.

Saturday:

Woke up early and get prepared to go for a hair cut. Brian cut and dye his hair while i perm, dye and cut my hair. I had been sitting at the salon from 10.45am to 5.30pm. While waiting for me, he went for a massage.Wow...he really enjoy his life. My hairstylist keep praising him...he got beautiful skin, pinkish fair... so patient...so soft spoken compare to me. Ya then i reply back....' Thats why i should be the bf and he should be the gf!' haha...RUBBISH!

Sunday:

Went for tuition and then send Jeremy to woodlands then we head down to AMK Hub for my late lunch. Then we went back to Brian's place and do some housework for him. Uncle cooked us dinner and head veg and curry fish head. Eat dragon fruits and sat down together to watch TV.

Overall, a loving weekend together, maybe due to not seeing each other for a week.

Auntie Anne will be back this week from Melbourne. On the 11 July, uncle David will be going Hong Kong for biz trip and brian and I will be away, left auntie alone at home. The whole family is all away.

Next week, we will only be meeting on monday after my school to send me home, thursday to send me home from school and friday after work for some simple shopping. Then....HOLIDAYS next week!

End of year, we are planning to go Hong Kong. Yippee!

My Melody

♥ 24 June 2008♥

I still busy with my school work. Got to attend classes on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday. Due to retaking my foundation for my economics. Need help for my bridging maths. So tired!

Whereas brian is busy with his reservist for two weeks. Last week is easy for him but this week need to go outfield so tiring for him too. He will get back his freedom this friday.

For this coming weekend plans:

Sat - Brian going to run for his union sports day and i will be there to cheer for him at the bedok reservoir.

Sun - No plans to go out yet so will stay at home to study and for brian to stay at home to rest and accompnay his lonely dad since his mum is away in Melbourne for holidays.

My Melody

♥ 23 June 2008♥

Does woman neeeds to listen to their man everytime?

I came across this situation around my social circle of daily life.

I just want to make a strong stand for today's modern woman. In a fast pace society like Singapore, woman is all rounded 'trained' to be an independent and be able to handle both career and family well enough to survive. Woman have grown stronger that we shouldn't rely on man for all responsibility. Woman, let's stand up and make our stand that it's no long the olden days that we have to follow man's order, we should have a mind of our own and be able to make decision at times. Let's picture a scenerio, your man are out station and your child is terribly sick, if one fails to make decision will start all ways to get in contact with her man to decide what to do with the sick child.

Please woman, let's not let man demand things from us like as if we are their slaves and live our life according to their moods. When they are in good moods, they pamper you with a small carrot. When they are in bad moods, dump you away like a rubbish.

In a 'well established' relationship or marriage, both should communicate with each other well so to be aware of each other's expectation. Man should take in consideration of their woman's emotion before requesting a demand from them. Woman, if you think that your man are demanding too much or have no consideration to your emotion, please, voice out to them calmly without any anger and never raise your voice. This method of communication is found to be effective to all relationship and marriages. Remember, Communication is the solution to all problems.

I would like to dedicate the above to someone and you should know who you are.

My Melody

♥ 19 June 2008♥

What it takes to be an ideal husband?

* Be affectionate and loving even after marriage
* Wife is his everything
* A good listener

* Honesty, respect and someone that you can look up to.
* Praise and complients your wife
* The main source of moral support
* Share his problems and thoughts with his wife
* Sharing housework and taking care of kides.
* Sensitive to her emotions and needs
* Financial independent and a good provider

I should be blessed that brian has most of it. Maybe he should be more sensitive to my needs... and continue to be affectionate even after our marriage.

My Melody

♥ 12 June 2008♥

FRIDAY THE 13.

Received a bad news early in the morning.

My dear cousin, Jeremy was posted to Brunei for his SAF 'Run-Out' Training. One of his team mates passed away in the jungle ( 1 team = 3 guys). They were left in the jungle to survive for days. Due to the hot weather and tough training, unfortunately his team mate and also his best friend, Clifton, passed away on the way to the hospital in the heplicator. I was so worried about my dear cousin's safety and emotional welfare. He had been a strong and independent boy, hope he will get over this accident and stand up strong again. I heard from my mum that he was crying very badly when he called home and feeling scared and can't take it anymore. I just given him a call and he was fine.

Jeremy, we believe you had done your best to help your friend during the incident occurred. What's gone is gone. Dont be sad, hang on and you will be home tomorrow. In our hearts, you are the BEST PILOT!

Next I will be checking in for a 3 day 2 nights 'Grande Vista Executive Suite' tonight!

My Melody

♥ 09 June 2008♥

I had passed my Bridging Economics. Overall, I didnt performed to me expectation, so disappointed and down. I have to work doublely harder for my coming Bridging Mathematics. Need to apply what Uncle David had shared with me the methods he used to study his Masters Degree when he is in the overseas university. Currently, still thinking whether can i retake the Bridging Economics.

Next, for my relationship, Baby had talked to his parents regarding our engagement. At first, his mum agreed to the idea of us engaging but after much discussion with his dad, they find that engaging is so old fashion and not necessary to go through it. They also find it a waste of money for the celebration, so they told us to go ahead with ROM instead.

Both me and brian are only prepared for engagement but not yet ROM. Due to my current committement, brian and his parents do not want to distract me and they want me to focus on my studies. So ROM will be at a later stage.... but....I'm still hoping for the day to come.

Really hope to settle down and set up my little 'happy family' and have two beautiful babies of our own...still hoping....

My Melody